Bob Grigsby, MA
Social Psychologist 319.936.7704

Meet The Coach:

Hi, I’m Bob, and I’m a Social Psychologist.

As a Social Psychologist I study the human social interactions of behavior and thought, and examine personality, interpersonal relationships, and group behavior, and how life experiences influence our perceptions of self and others.

So…what the fuck does that mean?

It means I do a lot of advisory work (coaching, mentoring, consulting) with men and women on their personal and professional development and well-being at home and at work.

It means I do a lot of “decoding” (translating, interpreting, deciphering) the dialogue we have with ourselves and others in our everyday human social interactions. Which includes decrypting our Life Positions -- how we feel about ourselves and how we feel about others -- and the life games we use to rationalize, justify, and defend our feelings, our actions, our behaviors toward reinforcing and maintaining those life positions.

I hold a BA in Social Science and an MA in Sociology with a Concentration in Social Psychology. I have over 30 years experience in the corporate business environment, and I’m a former executive of Mattel. I have over 20 years training and development experience as a coach, mentor, and consultant having served a wide range of clients with their personal and professional development in multiple industry sectors.

So, let's start here. Pretty sure you’ve already been working toward trying to figure out your personal and professional intentions in life and in work. You’ve either engaged in some reading, journaling, introspection, yoga, meditation, retreats, course-work, or some combination of the above. And, you are completely ready and committed to making important changes in you and your life course.

“Work with a seasoned coach to activate and empower your best attributes and realize your greatest potential!”

One-on-One Coaching: Personal and Professional Development

Personal Development Coaching

Personal Development Coaching aims to help you reach a deeper understanding of yourself and your character strengths, and to use that knowledge for optimal growth. Character strengths knowledge, exploration, and use can play an important role in boosting happiness, managing relationship conflicts, setting up personal goals at work, handling life stressors, or searching for deeper meaning in life.

This type of 1-on-1 coaching is intended to be positive in focus, centered on you, empowering, energizing, and practical. You will work with a seasoned character strengths expert to explore your strengths, goals, and other key elements in psychology to find greater well-being.

Professional Development Coaching

Professional Development Coaching is focused on leveraging character strengths to help you best serve your clients, students, or employees. This may involve case consultation in which the coach offers opinions and ideas regarding your work with a specific client (individual or group). It may involve questions and answers in which you and your coach wrestle with a variety of questions you have about applying character strengths and other elements of psychology.

Other common examples include discussing optimal strengths interventions for a workshop or class you are planning to lead, being a strengths “sounding board” for a consultation you are offering, or reviewing outlines and ideas of strengths projects you are working on. The goal is to help you not only understand optimal strengths applications but to enable you to thrive in doing so.

Coaching may address, for example, your personal projects, life balance and stressors, the development of well-being, improving your relationships or health, job performance, personal satisfaction and meaning, or your strengths-based approach with your clients, students, employees, or your own family. Coaching focuses on your character strengths (and other strengths), and may involve personal strategic planning, values clarification, brainstorming, and other goal-achievement strategies.

These coaching packages will be offered/delivered virtually through Zoom.

Presentation of Self - Life Script Exploration

Life scripts have a deep and subconscious effect on how we live our lives. They affect the decisions we make and control what we think we should do and should not do. They shape our self-image and our presentation of self in everyday life. We often have no idea that we’ve constructed these scripts or where they come from, but nevertheless they are powerful and can impose destructive and unnecessary restrictions on our choices throuhout life. Once this plan or life script is made, it influences the whole course of our life.

In shaping our image, we all wear "masks" of one kind or another...and those masks represent the false emotions a person might "wear" in front of other people. Masking is hiding your authentic self; the outward appearance of the mask does not match the true inner-emotions that are beneath it, and masking behavior obscures your natural personality. We each have a "front-stage persona" and a "back-stage persona" as part of our Life Script. The coaching sessions below explore life scripts and masking, and how to be consciously aware of them with the goal of developing positive, prosocial counterscripts.

“When you say ‘Yes’ to others, make sure you are not saying ‘No’ to yourself, and that you are not being caught up in a game for someone else’s benefit.”

“This is an extraordinary journey that starts within! Are you ready to pivot to the next level…”